10 tips for better sleep: How to wake up feeling refreshed every day

A person staring at the ceiling while laying in bed.

Yep. I know that look.

You know those mornings when you wake up before your alarm, stretch, and think, “Wow, I feel amazing?” Yeah… same.

Most of us are stuck in that frustrating cycle of bad sleep and groggy mornings, and it’s exhausting. Literally.

But here’s the thing: great sleep isn’t just for lucky people. With a few intentional changes, you can wake up feeling rested and ready to take on the day. And no, it doesn’t involve expensive gadgets or drinking weird teas (unless you’re into that).

Let’s talk about 10 game-changing tips for better sleep because you deserve to wake up feeling awesome.

1 | Stick to a consistent sleep schedule

Your body loves routine. If you’re going to bed at 10 one night, midnight the next, and sleeping in on weekends, your internal clock is basically waving a white flag.

Pick a bedtime and wake-up time that work for your lifestyle, and stick to them, even on weekends. Yes, it’s hard to skip that Sunday morning sleep-in, but your body will thank you when falling asleep feels effortless.

2 | Create a wind-down routine that actually calms you

Let’s be real. Falling into bed and hoping your brain shuts off is not a strategy. Instead, spend the last hour or so before bed doing things that help you chill out.

Dim the lights, grab a book, do some gentle stretching, whatever makes you feel calm and cozy. The goal is to signal to your body, “Hey, it’s bedtime. Let’s wind down.”

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3 | Watch out for caffeine lurking in your day

You love coffee. I love coffee. But coffee at 3 p.m. does not love us back. Caffeine sticks around for hours, and it’s sneaky. It might still be in your system, messing with your sleep when you’re trying to drift off.

Try cutting off caffeine around lunchtime, or switch to decaf or herbal tea if you need an afternoon cup of comfort.

4 | Make your bedroom feel like a sleep retreat

Your bedroom should be a place that screams “relaxation” and not “I have 500 tabs open in my brain.” Think cozy, calm, and distraction-free.

Start with the basics:

  • Keep it cool: Read #9 below for the details.

  • Keep it dark: Blackout curtains, an eye mask, whatever works.

  • Keep it tidy: A clutter-free room is a clutter-free mind, or at least that’s what I tell myself when I finally put away my laundry.

5 | Say goodbye to screens before bed

I get it, you’re just gonna “check one more thing” on your phone. But screens are like melatonin’s kryptonite, thanks to all that blue light. Plus, the endless scrolling? Not exactly relaxing.

Set a “screen curfew” about an hour before bed, and swap your phone for something low-tech, like a book or some journaling. Your sleep will thank you.

6 | Be picky about what you eat and drink at night

Late-night nachos or sugary desserts might sound fun, but your stomach won’t like it. Eating heavy or spicy foods before bed can lead to restless nights.

Instead, go for light, sleep-friendly snacks like bananas, almonds, or a little bowl of oatmeal. And try to finish eating at least 2-3 hours before you crawl into bed.

7 | Get moving during the day

Here’s the deal: exercise isn’t just good for your health, it’s amazing for your sleep. It helps your body burn off energy and stress so you can fully relax at night.

Even 30 minutes of walking, yoga, or dancing around your kitchen can make a difference. Just keep intense workouts earlier in the day so they don’t leave you wired when it’s time to sleep.

8 | Deal with stress before it follows you to bed

You know that feeling when you’re lying in bed, trying to sleep, and your brain is like, “What about that email? And that thing you said in 2012?” Anxiety loves to keep us awake.

Before bed, try this:

  • Write down your worries in a journal.

  • Do some deep breathing: inhale for 4, hold for 4, exhale for 4.

  • Try progressive muscle relaxation (tense and release each muscle group from your toes to your head).

9 | Pay attention to your room’s temperature

Here’s something weird: your body needs to cool down at night to fall asleep. If your bedroom is too hot, you’re probably tossing and turning. Too cold? Same deal.

The sweet spot is 15-19°C (60-67°F). If you’re a hot sleeper, try a fan, cooling sheets, or breathable pajamas. Bamboo sheets and mattress toppers are amazing for this.

If you’re always freezing, grab a blanket or some fuzzy socks.

10 | Listen to your body (seriously)

Not every tip will work perfectly for you, and that’s okay. The key is paying attention to how you feel and making adjustments as you go.

Ask yourself:

  • Do I wake up feeling rested?

  • Is there one habit that’s made a big difference?

  • What’s one small thing I can try this week to improve my sleep?

The more you tune in to what works for you, the better your sleep will get.

Which tip will you focus on tonight? Drop it in the comments.

 

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